The typical scenario would be; there’s a guy courting a woman that he is interested in; then when the woman starts showing interest, he suddenly backs off. Now why does this usually happen? It’s just a pain sometimes that we go for people who don’t like us, and we don’t like the people who like us.

Well, for one thing, notice that when you do like a person, you like who they really are. You like the fact that they don’t try to impress you, they just basically get you hooked with their looks and personality and you see them in their most natural state. They don’t even try to do anything to make you fall for them or get you attracted to them. They’re just doing what they do.

Now then, you start showing them interest and start giving them effort in order for them to like you back. Here’s what most women do wrong when they start liking someone back – They keep their senses up and they would act unnatural. Unnatural in the sense that they become being more conscious about their actions and they actually TRY getting your attention. They start seeking your approval which would lead to them being clingy and constantly on the watch for your actions.

Now for the men, she suddenly seems different now. She’s not acting the same way she was before when she wasn’t all that interested in you. She’s no longer a mystery and you become her world.

Now I’m not saying that this is the only reason why this happens. I’m just saying that this could be one of the reasons men back off from women who already shows them their attraction. This is for women who just suddenly lets their guard down and completely divulges all their secrets and stories to the guys trying to impress him, while it’s actually doing the opposite.

Men are not impressed when women try to impress them, they just like to sit back and watch you be who you really are. So basically, this is what usually happens when women show men their interest and why men suddenly back off when they’re shown this attraction.