He/She’s not doing anything to make things better between the two of you anymore. In relation to the first one, your partner no longer shows interest in solving the problem. If recently, you fix problems just because you give in, not because he/she apologized. Your partner doesn’t even make an effort to make things better for the two of you.
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There’s a difference between busy and making an excuse. If recently, he/she has been making so many excuses for missing out your dates. Regardless if it’s true or not, he/she is still missing dates. In the first place, he should know that having a partner would require giving extra time to your partner and treating them like a priority too.
They’re boring to be with recently. This time, it’s not that they’re trying to be cold or whatever. This could even be a time that you two may not have any problems or you’re not in any fights but still, your have no idea what to talk about anymore. Suddenly he/she is very bored around you and shows no similarity to how he/she was before.