Do Men Unknowingly Change Women?

By: Abielle in Lifestyle

In the first year, you get a woman her parents created, after more years; you get the woman you created.

Often times, men complain on why their women change after all the years they've been together without realizing that what their women turn out to be could be based on how men treat their partner. Here are some questions that men should ask themselves first before jumping to conclusions that their woman changed all on her own.


Did I change?” How sure are you that you yourself did not change during the years? She may have been used to you giving her flowers on special occasions, or even just in random. You were very patient with her mood swings, no matter how busy you were you still made sure you had time to pursue her. You were so excited about her that you wanted to show the world your girl. You made her feel extra special and that other girls are jealous of her and how you treat her. But then now, things may have changed. No more flowers, not enough time, you’re bored and she jealous of other women now.

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Do I still listen to her?”When she shares stories and talk do you actually listen? I know women could come off as talkative and they tend to nag but, during the times she talks about her interests, hobbies and the things she’s gone through for the day, do you still listen to her? People change every so often that even their interests could change. Sometimes we become too familiar with our partner that we think their interests and everything about them would no longer change; therefore, we become comfortable enough not to listen anymore. So then women change their dispositions about something and men are left clueless of what just happened. That’s because they don’t listen anymore.

Do I make her happy?” Really. A happy woman is a legitimate proof of how much of a real man you are. And it would come back to you in ten folds. Most probably you know how woman are very caring and loving especially when they’re happy. They’re suddenly sweet and bubbly and even submissive. If you don’t make your woman happy then most definitely she will change. Always remember that how you treat the women is the biggest factor in which she could change; then you end up blaming her for suddenly not being the same woman you used to fall in love with.




Hi! I’m Abielle, a Communication Arts student from Colegio de San Juan de Letran Manila. I’m 20 years old and would love to build a career on singing, writing and film directing. I've done some modelling but my passion is still with – Film and Writing. I’m opinionated--peculiar little puzzle that even I can’t figure myself out. Maybe through writing, we’d get bits and pieces of this puzzle together. Follow this puzzle’s twitter and Instagram: abielleremo

Posted by on 19 Apr 2014

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